In response to the findings of the “Study of Clergy in
the Virginia Annual Conference, 1997-98", the Board of
Ordained Ministry proposed (among other initiatives) the
development of a self-care model as a standard for what
a healthy, balanced lifestyle for Conference clergy,
diaconal ministers, and certified professionals might
look like. The BOM’s Clergy Self-Care Committee was
charged with envisioning such a model and, in response,
developed a “Covenant for Self-Care” (below). The
Covenant has been used initially by both the Board of
Ordained Ministry and the Bishop’s Cabinet in order to
model, support, and stimulate the use of this resource.
Covenant for Self-Care
For the benefit of my own life and the ministry to
which I am called in Christ...
I will keep, as a regular practice, the following
spiritual disciplines (beyond sermon and teaching
preparation). List at least three:
_____________________________________________
I will regularly set aside time for family meals (at
least weekly) and family activities (at least
monthly). “Family” denotes immediate family,
extended family, and/or network of friends.
I will adhere to the minimum standards for vacation
and days off as articulated in the “Vacation Policy
for Virginia Conference Pastors”* adopted by the
Bishop’s Cabinet.
I will adhere to the “Guidelines for Continuing
Theological Education”* as required by the Virginia
Conference Board of Ordained Ministry.
I will work towards achieving and/or maintaining
personal conformity with medically recognized health
guidelines for height and weight unless such
conformity is deemed unsuitable by my attending
physician.
I will develop and/or maintain personal
relationships with the following persons (friends,
family, colleagues) to whom I can go for support in
times of stress or difficulty. List at least 3 or 4:
__________________________________________
I will participate in some form(s) of regular
exercise appropriate to the particulars of my
physical condition and with the knowledge and
approval of my attending physician. Briefly describe
exercise program:
__________________________________________
I will endeavor to establish/maintain healthy
practices with regard to personal nutrition.
I will order my personal administrative life through
the establishment of legal documents appropriate to
the particular circumstances of my relationships:
e.g., a personal will, durable power of attorney,
living will, and/or guardianship for surviving minor
children. I will make known the location of these
documents to the following persons (list at least
two): _____________________________
I will endeavor to establish/maintain healthy
practices with regard to proper sleep.
I covenant all of the above with the following
peer-support person or group with whom I will share
mutual accountability for our self-care as clergy
(please list):